Only one of us could join Amanda’s family this morning to remember her life and to say a final good-bye.

It was Tommy who offered what must have been one of the best and most moving eulogies ever.

There is a nagging doubt about whether Amanda had died so young had she received the appropriate care and treatment. Tommy, her partner, could not have been a more forceful advocate on Amanda’s behalf. For him, he says, the fight is not over.

We’ve only just began – to live.