“If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it… Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; oh never mind; you will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded. But trust me, in 20 years you’ll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked….You’re not as fat as you imagine.”
You’re in a captive space. There is nowhere out. For the next 10 hours you’re going to drive down this road and he will sit beside you and nothing and nobody is going to stop him from playing his music. Have you ever been in a situation like this? Do you know what I’m talking about? I had brought my music, really great music I wanted to share with the rest of the family – only that nobody wanted to share that experience with me. There was no contest. We were going to listen to Kila, The Script, Mundy, BellX1, TG Lurgan, MGMT, Ham Sandwich, and: Baz Luhrmann.
“Don’t worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as
effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing
bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that
never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm
on some idle Tuesday.”
Now, years later, I think: those were the days. This is the music. I would still be singing Dylan songs were it not for those long, captive hours when I was condemned to listen to all this really really hot music.
Pádraig, the man of the music, is breathing today on what they call a T-piece, just oxygen support, no pumps nor pressure, all by himself. Which is really good news. The consultant didn’t show up today and one of the junior doctors advised us they would keep flushing his lungs to remove whatever ‘stuff’ they could flush out, until tomorrow morning. They will then reassess the situation and decide whether he will need another operation.
Three of his old (!) friends arrived today, all less than half my age; they said they are beginning to feel old. How I feel for them. Two have been with Pádraig half way around the world. They staid with him almost around the clock in Hyannis; visited him in Ireland; and are now back with him in Germany. I wonder whether he ever realized how privileged he is having such good friends.
“Understand that friends come and go,but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.”
“Be careful whose advice you buy, but, be patient with those who
supply it. … But trust me on the sunscreen…”
PS: Just came across this clip from John Q. A down-on-his luck father, whose insurance won’t cover his son’s heart transplant, takes the hospital’s emergency room hostage until the doctors agree to perform the operation. – A bit on the extreme side, but Denzel W. definitely has a point.
Silbermond, Ich bereue nichts (2009). ‘Symphonie’ was one of Pádraig’s songs in the summer of 2004.
What’s hot
Sunscreen
What’s cold
Advice
The German word/phrase/verse of the day
Wo soll das alles enden?
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You know it’s funny Reinhard I was in the library today and that Baz Luhrmann song came into my head, and I had a kind of realisation with the lyrics and wrote a note in my notebook. It was the realisation that we really are so young (táimid chomh h-óg) and we don’t realise, and can never really realise. It means this time will never come again, it’s such a brief part of our lives, but it also means that we have our whole lives ahead of us to learn and grow, and Pádraig has all this time ahead of him to continue to improve. It’s just funny that those same lyrics popped into my head in TCD library today when I was thinking about him!
It is funny, Sophie, isn’t it? Must be some trans-North Sea mental connection going on. Ní dhéanann daoine óga a fhios cad é sean-aoise, agus do dhaoine d’aois dearmad cad a bhí óige. – I hope I got that right. The trick is, for old people at least, and I speak from my own experience, to stay connected with the young. And it’s not always just about the music! – Keep thinking of Pádraig!
I love the company of young people, as I hope they realise: They’re so not fenced in (yet)! & thank ye for the music, too!
Love. Joe/Seos
fingers crossed, thinking of Padraig XXX.
Agus is léir go mbaineann siad taitneamh as do chomhluadar chomh maith! Ceann de na grianghraif is fearr liom ón gConradh ná an ceann sin a ghlac mé ó taobh amháin den mbeár nuair a bhí tusa agus Schaler ag caint. x
More than any one I know, Pádraig has always appreciated friends, Reinhard. He has always been profoundly conscious of the importance of friends… I think this consciousness is the root of all his friends’ loyalty to him. no doubt.
I am ashamed to confess that I tent to forget how old I am when I share music with my daughters. Not all what they like get to me, but the one we both admire makes me sing with the music dance with it and forget my age. Through you I have got to know Kila, by sure we will enjoy them with all the family for we really like this kind of music and then get connected to you at least in some way.
I am so glad that Pádraig is breathing that better byhimself!! Dedos cruzados muy fuertes!!! Besos y abrazos para todos!!!
Hello, Reinhard,
While we’re on the subject … one evening in Beaumont, I remarked to Pat on how nice Pádraig’s friends were (by this stage I’d met a few) and how it gave me hope to know that these good people would be in charge of things in the future. And then I went in to visit Pádraig, and there was another lovely young friend of his!
Now, that doesn’t stop me having a quiet laugh at the idea of young people feeling old … but I know I did too, back in 19xx. It’s the human condition.
I’m conscious you are awaiting further advice from the consultant, and I wish you all the very best in relation to it.
Louise